Valentine’s Day

Over the past few weeks, there has been a lot of talk in the media over the Mangalore pub incident, the approaching V day and what the self appointed guardians of Indian culture plan to do.

 First about the Mangalore incident: This is a democratic country where consumption of alcohol or dancing in appropriate places is not prohibited (for persons of both genders). As far as decent/indecent clothing goes, it is subjective. You also have to take into account the time and place. If the person(s) were consuming alcohol and dancing in revealing clothes in a public place (like a place of worship or in the city centre), yes, it is unlawful. Even in such instances, citizens should not take the law into their own hands but inform the law enforcement agencies.

 Secondly about V day and its impact on Indian culture and values. I personally am not a big fan of V day – when we were in school or college, we were not even aware about such a day. It is only in the past decade or so that there is a hype and hoopla around this Also, I do not need a specific day in the year to remind me of my loved ones and to prove my love for them.

 Having said that, what is wrong if people celebrate togetherness with flowers, chocolates or gifts? I mean it is not as if people are doing something illegal and infringing on others’ rights, is it?

 I said earlier that I am not a big fan of V day. However of late (especially if it falls on a holiday as it does this time around), my take on this is why not relax and have fun? Maybe go out for lunch / dinner for a change.

 What the so called moral policemen need to understand is this – different strokes for different people.  Chill out… man!